I read a lot about breast cancer and how it affects those it strikes. Sometimes the reading is hard — like when an intrepid blogger dies from metastatic breast cancer — sometimes the reading is sad — like when a blogger pours out her heart on the topic of life and loss — but usually it’s uplifting, restorative, and comforting.
I’ve not done a good job in this space of writing about — and railing against — metastatic breast cancer, the kind that kills. MBC is every pink-ribbon girl’s biggest fear. Once that cancer leaves the breast and travels to points far afield, usually the liver, bones, and/or brain, the game changes completely. No matter what stage one begins the cancer “journey,” once the cancer spreads, it’s stage IV and incurable. Treatable, but not curable.
The stats on MBC are horrifying, both the number of women who are afflicted and the shockingly low percentage of funds allocated for research: 30 percent of women with early-stage breast cancer will develop MBC, and 90 percent of breast cancer deaths result from MBC yet only 2 percent of funds go toward research for it, according to metavivor.org. MBC is the pink elephant in the room. Or the elephant in the pink room, as the latest metavivor campaign calls it.
I encourage you to click on this link and go to the metavivor website. There are easy ways to get involved and ensure that more funds go toward research for MBC. Each time someone likes metavivor on Facebook, a dollar goes into the research pot. Share the image above on Facebook, add another dollar. Sign up to receive emails from metavivor and add one more Benajamin. Follow metavivor on Twitter, add one more, and mention it on Twitter with the hashtag #MBCAware for one more dollar donated. The money comes from Eisai, a research-based pharmaceutical company. I don’t know how to pronounce its name, but I like what it is doing for oncology research.
I think about MBC a lot. I’ve written about it a lot. Recurrence is the scariest part of the breast cancer “journey,” IMHO, and that’s saying a lot because this “journey” is full of pitfalls, roadblocks, speed bumps, potholes, and unpleasant detours.
Yesterday I read a fantastic post about MBC by Yvonne at Consider the Lillies, and one part really stuck with me. Much of the post resonates, but this part especially, as it perfectly describes the recurrence side of the breast cancer “journey”:
“I am afraid that the cancer that was removed along with my breast, will reappear in my bones or my brain or my liver. That it will sneakily take up residence in a vital organ. So every little headache is a warning bell, every twinge in my left hip is a harbinger of disease. The series of appointments with oncologists, plastic surgeons, breast surgeons is unsettling. Scribbled in a planner, the dates remind me that my life has been forever altered by breast cancer. I suppose I am doing just fine. I’ve even been told I look just like myself, that God would never give me more than I can handle, and admonished to put my “big girl pants on.” The thing is that those tests and scans shocked me once, and I have prepared a little space inside to be shocked once again.”
I pondered this for a long while yesterday, and realized that I too have prepared a little space inside to be shocked once again. It’s one of the many hard truths about the aftermath of cancer. On one hand, surviving such an ordeal provides a zest for life, a desire to gobble up life in big, gulping bites, to live it to the fullest, in whatever form that takes. But on the other hand, it’s hard to live fearlessly and zestfully while waiting for the other shoe to drop. It’s not a question of thinking positively or hoping for the best. It goes beyond having done the homework and made the hard decisions and undergone treatments to slay the beast. One can do all of those things and still lose this game. One can do everything right, yet breast cancer recurs. That’s why we prepare that little space inside.
In her post, Yvonne calls for an online revolution about the realities of breast cancer, especially the metastatic kind. I’m in. Me and that little space inside are all in.
Because it’s Pinktober, the month for breast cancer “awareness,” you can’t swing a cat without hitting some form of pink merchandise allegedly deemed charitable and “for the cure.” Now, before all you cat lovers get up in arms, I wouldn’t really swing a cat, it’s just an expression from my neck of the woods. I’m not a cat person and have never had one as a pet, but I believe in animal rights for all critters, including cats.
Before I was diagnosed with the dreaded disease and in the early days of my cancer “journey,” when I thought of BC charities, I thought of Susan G Komen for the Cure. It wasn’t until I became better educated, as a member of club to which I did not want to belong, that I learned how shockingly little of Komen’s resources actually go toward “the cure.” The much-beloved blogger Rachel Moro of The Cancer Culture Chronicles deserves the credit for my education; to see how beloved she was, click here. Sadly, Rachel died from metastatic breast cancer in February at age 42. Words fail me when I try to explain how instrumental and important Rachel is (present tense very much intended) in the ongoing march toward transparency in BC charities and in dethroning Komen as the go-to breast cancer charity.
Rachel was tireless in her efforts to remove the emphasis from awareness and place it where it belongs: on research. She wrote so eloquently and so passionately:
Education, screening and treatment won’t “cure” my cancer. Sure, by being “educated” I might be able to find out more about my particular type of breast cancer. By being “screened” I might be able to see if my cancer has spread. By being “treated” I might be able to keep the cancer I already have under control. But will any of these activities result in me being cured? No. The only hope that my cancer will be cured, is by research and research alone. The only way that breast cancer will be prevented, given that many of those diagnosed have none of the known risk factors, is through research. Indeed, the only way we can “end breast cancer forever” is with research. Education, screening and treatment activities deal with finding and treating cancers we already have, not curing them and not ending breast cancer now or forever. Period. Spending anything less than the bulk of its resources on research, clearly does not support Komen’s mission of ending breast cancer forever.
I’ve said before that while Komen has done much to eliminate the shame and scandal that once was associated with breast cancer, in the 30 years that the organization has been working “for the cure,” not much has changed. 30 years. No cure. Nothing even close to a cure.
The statistics are alarming. Being diagnosed with cancer is scary enough, but to also learn that advancements toward a cure are nonexistent is terrifying. The American Cancer Society estimates for 2011 predicted that some 230,480 women would be diagnosed with an invasive breast cancer, and an additional 57,650 women would be diagnosed with an in situ breast cancer. For the uninitiated, in situ breast cancers are located within the milk ducts (ductal carcinoma in situ, or DCIS) or breast lobules (lobular carcinoma in situ or LCIS), in the same spot the cancers began. Invasive breast cancers are those that originate in the ducts or lobules but have broken through to invade surrounding breast tissue. The majority of breast cancers are invasive, and many women, including yours truly, find themselves with both in situ and invasive cancers, both at the same time; sometimes in the same breast, even.
The ACS reports that since 2002, breast cancer incidences rates have remained relatively stable. So in the 30 years that Komen has been promoting its pursuit “for the Cure” and in the last decade of ACS records, not much has changed. What needs to change is the shift from “awareness” to research. As Rachel so astutely pointed out, the best path “for the cure” is through research. What causes breast cancer? What makes it recur? How can it be prevented?
Now that we know that Komen hasn’t really done all that much toward finding a cure for breast cancer, the question becomes, if not Komen, then who? My blog friend at I’ll Drink to That raised an important question in a comment to this blog post when she asked, “Who should my money go to? I don’t want it to go to pink socks for football players, or stupid tshirts or pink nail polish – I want it to make a difference.”
Who should my money go to? Excellent question. The short answer, IMHO, is anyone but Komen.
And here, ladies and gentlemen, are some ideas.
Research-based charities: You’ve got the heavy-hitters, like MD Anderson, right here in my fair city. There’s also The Dana Farber Cancer Institute in Boston, and Memorial Sloan-Kettering Cancer Center in New York City. Those 3 links take you to each org’s donations page.
Beyond the hospitals, there’s the Dr Susan Love Research Foundation. This is one of my faves, and I’ve blogged about it here and again here, because the focus is on the research that will stop breast cancer before it starts. What a dream come true! Breast Cancer Action is a fantastic organization founded by BC survivors whose goal is to “inspire and compel the changes necessary to end the breast cancer epidemic.” The Breast Cancer Research Foundation was founded by an executive from the Estee Lauder company, and the foundation funds nearly 200 scientists working on the breast cancer puzzle. The National Breast Cancer Coalition has declared January 1, 2020 as its deadline for ending breast cancer forever. I’d like to see that goal realized.
Local breast cancer charities: Google “breast cancer charity” and your city. You should get several hits that aren’t Komen-related. My favorite in my city is The Rose. Here, insured women and women who can pay for services help offset the costs for women who are uninsured or who cannot pay. It’s been estimated that women with insurance have breast tumors diagnosed when the tumors are about the size of a raspberry. Women without insurance are diagnosed with tumors the size of a tangerine.
Site-specific breast cancer charities: One of the most intriguing is My Hope Chest, which offers financial assistance to women for reconstruction-related expenses. Even with insurance, reconstruction is expensive. Metavivor focuses on research for metastatic breast cancer, or BC that has spread. Look Good Feel Better uses the idea that if cancer patients look more like themselves–and less like cancer patients–during treatment, their self-esteem will increase ans so will their ability to cope.
There are ways to help beyond spending money, too. If you are considering buying a pinked-out product that claims to help fight breast cancer, read the fine print to see which charity is receiving proceeds. If it’s a charity that isn’t actively working toward research, perhaps you can select another product or skip it altogether. Volunteer at your local hospital or breast screening center. Speak up: if the preponderance of pinked-out product placement bugs you, say so. Tell your grocery store manager that you don’t like it. If you come across campaigns that seem more about the boobs than about the disease, contact the purveyor and say so. Spread some cheer to someone on the cancer “journey” by reaching out to them, regardless of how well you know them. A text, email, or greeting card saying “I’m thinking about you and I support you” is a small effort with big impact. Join Dr Susan Love’s Army of Women in which women–with and without breast cancer–of all ages and ethnicities can participate in a variety of studies & surveys.
And this concludes our lesson on if not Komen, then who? Class dismissed.