New year, new gamePosted: January 19, 2015 Filed under: cancer fatigue, Surgery, Uncategorized | Tags: carpal tunnel syndrome, CTS and hypothyroid, hypothyroidism, lateral release for dislocated kneecap, Maque knee surgery, osteotomy, Supartz, Synthetic synovial fluid, thyroid biopsy, thyroid nodules 13 Comments
Two weeks into this new year, I am wrapping my head around a whole ‘nother challenge. This new game has nothing to do with cancer (for the moment, anyway — knock wood) but concerns the myriad ways my body challenges me. I refrain from classifying those challenges as failures, i.e., the many ways in which my body is failing me, because that is the new game: the mental side of physical illness.
I’m a fierce player in all aspects of the game that is confronting health issues. All aspects except the mental game. I suck at that part. Give me the worst-case scenario (mycobacterium fortuitum, I’m talking to you) and I will slay it. Give me a long, difficult road on which to travel, and I will keep on truckin’. But tell me that the only weapon I have in which to fight is my mind, and I’m hosed. Tell me to stay positive and look on the bright side, and I struggle. Offer me platitudes and I will want to punch someone. Outlook: not great.
Some of the news ways in which my body challenges (fails) me are minor: graduating to the bifocal club, or needing to hit the hay well before midnight. To those challenges I say let’s call a truce. But the bigger challenges are well, bigger. And more challenging. There are three bad guys vying for attention these days: the bad knee, the wonky thyroid, and carpal tunnel syndrome. Awesome.
The bad knee is acting up and acting out. Again. Three surgeries and countless rehab exercises mean nothing to that old hag. The misaligned kneecap is screaming for attention, and the missing cartilage is hunkering for its piece of the pie. Two very squeaky wheels in an already crowded field. The second round of synthetic synovial fluid injections did little to appease the missing cartilage. Despite the giant needle being jabbed straight into the innocent flesh adjacent to the bone-on-bone area, relief evaded me. Upon reviewing my day-after-Christmas x-ray, my orthopedist shifted gears from a previous recommendation of partial knee replacement to osteotomy, which requires cutting the bone at the top of the tibia and using plates and screws to relocate it in its proper place. The one word that comes up when researching the recovery for this surgery: brutal. Standard care is crutches for two weeks and a cane for a month alongside endless physical therapy. Thanks but no thanks.
The thyroid is being an asshole, as well. Long story short: underactive thyroid, two daily meds, and two nodules that may or may not be problematic, and dissenting opinions by my crack medical team as to whether another thyroid biopsy is needed. Being the fierce player that I am, had my crack team concurred, I would have promptly had that biopsy. As much as I detest the idea of another needle being stuck IN MY NECK, I will do it if it’s necessary. But if there is dissent on the matter, I’ll defer. That said, that asshole thyroid has some wily ways of mucking up my life. Symptoms and side-effects of a wonky thyroid are far-reaching, and just when I think I have them under control (or am at least resigned to them), another one makes its grand entrance.
Which brings us to the third challenge: carpal tunnel syndrome. For a couple of years I’ve had what I thought was neuropathy: tingling, numbness, swelling, and radiating pain in both hands especially first thing in the morning. It came to a head shortly after we moved into our new house last year, and my GP chalked it up to overuse of my hands and forearms from packing and unpacking endless boxes. A round of steroids and some anti-inflammatories should have done the trick, but instead there is a fresh new hell to endure.
If I employ the “coulda/woulda/shoulda” tactic for dealing with the three most-pressing physical challenges, I find myself regretting my decision to put off treatment even though I had met that $6,000 deductible last year. As I face the blank slate of a reset deductible, I wish I’d sucked it up and had the surgeries and procedures I need. Perhaps I would not be typing this very post with pins & needles fingers. Perhaps I would not be thinking about how stiff and sore my knee will be after sitting at my desk to compose a blog post. Perhaps I would not be chiding myself for having been tapped out by the end of 2014.
Cue the mental side of dealing with a physical issue. Because I did not have these problems surgically repaired, I must figure out how to change my thinking. For instance, I give myself a pep talk on the way to the gym. It goes something like this:
“Don’t think about what you used to be able to do, but focus on what you can still do.”
“Lots of people more able-bodied than you aren’t even trying.”
“Don’t look at what the other gym-rats are accomplishing; comparison is the thief of joy.”
“Even a shitty workout is better than no workout at all.”
I’m not very good at this part. I recall the words of my favorite yoga teacher: where my mind goes, so too goes my energy. I envision my faulty parts bathed in a warm glow of healing energy. But it’s work. A lot of work. I’m not a fan of listening to my body and accepting limitations; I much prefer to push through the pain. It’s a struggle to avoid falling into the “haven’t I suffered enough??” mentality, and it’s certainly not a great way to start a new year. But, instead of deciding that this old dog can’t learn a new trick, I will become a player (albeit not a starter) in this mental game. As the great Yogi Berra once said, “Ninety percent of this game is half mental.”
There’s a zombie on my lawnPosted: November 20, 2012 Filed under: cancer fatigue | Tags: fine needle aspiration, hypothyroidism, Plants vs zombies, team Edward, there's a zombie on your lawn, thyroid biopsy, thyroid nodule, xanax 16 Comments
Much has been written, in this space and in that of countless other blogs, about the far-reaching fear of metastases. Once cancer comes to town, no matter how small the tumor or early-stage the disease, the fear of recurrence prevails. Forever. Or until it actually happens. Kinda like in the traditional wedding vows: until death do you part.
When cancer returns, you go directly to Stage IV. Don’t pass go, don’t collect $200. No matter how “good” your cancer was initially, regardless of you doing your due diligence and “catching it early,” once it returns, you. are. screwed.
I think about this. A lot. Way more than I’d like to think about it. Maybe it’s just my personality. I don’t think I’m a gloom & doom kind of girl, but my mind goes to recurrence all the time. Perhaps it’s a natural by-product of having watched my sweet mama die a nasty death from an even nastier disease. Cancer, no matter what kind, no matter what stage, is nasty, and once it infiltrates your life, it’s always lurking in the shadows, ready to pounce upon your body or mind, or both.
Cheery thoughts as we head into the Thanksgiving holiday, I know.
My recurrence fears roared to life this week. I should have been relishing the upcoming Thanksgiving holiday, my favorite holiday because it encompasses all the food & fun and none of the stress of gifts. Instead I was enduring a crash-course in thyroid issues, and in the process of seeking a second and then a third opinion for my hypothyroid, I found myself back in the ultrasound department at my favorite local hospital. My new endocrine doc ordered an ultrasound so we could have a little look-see into what is causing my thyroid to limp along like an aging marathoner at mile 25. Good thing she did: there’s some sort of party going on in my thyroid, with lots of guests: the loudest, pushiest of these guests is a 1 cm nodule on the left side of my thyroid. The size itself is not terribly worrying but its mere presence is, and especially the presence of the “debris” it brought to the party. Debris is definitely not a good thing when it comes to nodules. At best, it raises a red flag. At worst, it can be indicative of cancer.
The thyroid gland is one of those myriad body parts for which you may not even know exactly what it does until it stops doing what it’s supposed to do. If you fall into that camp but are now curious, read this. I never thought too much about it myself, being preoccupied with my more ill-behaving body parts. What I know now is that my thyroid is lazy and shiftless. Well, maybe not shiftless; I threw that in there out of frustration. But lazy, yes. It’s an underachiever in the tradition of the slackers who populated Austin, TX, in the mid-90s, scooping ice cream at Amy’s or building delicious sub sandwiches at Thundercloud instead of working a traditional desk job. Like the scoopers and sandwich artists, my thyroid is covered in tattoos, likes to sleep until 2 pm, and is slowly working on breaking through into the upper echelon of the indie music scene. What I want from my thyroid is not a 6-inch-long braided goatee and a knitted-in-a-Guatamalan village skull-cap but a three-piece suit and shiny shoes with a briefcase stuffed with pie charts, spreadsheets, and proposals.
We always want what we don’t have.
Because my slacker thyroid is sporting a nodule where a nodule should not be, and because I’ve got a dual-cancer-surviving history under my belt, my endocrinologist ordered a thyroid biopsy. It’s unlikely that breast cancer would metastasize to the thyroid, but …. She was kind enough to tell me that it’s not a pleasant procedure, but nothing I and a xanax can’t handle. Thank the pharmaceutical gods for xanax.
So basically a thyroid biopsy is just as you might envision: a fine-gauged needle stuck in your neck to suck out the cells and some of the debris that fill the nodule.
Yes, you read that right — a needle in the neck.
After changing into a gown and filling out the consent forms (yes, I understand what they’re about to do to me. Yes I agree to have a needle stuck in my neck. Yes, I know how an ultrasound works. Yes, I get that some of the ultrasound gel may stick to my hair. Yes, I absolve the radiologist from any responsibility for honest mistakes. Yes, I will donate my unused cells and debris to research. Yes, yes, and yes, just get it over with), it was showtime.
The room was freezing, as rooms in which horrific procedures occur tend to be. Esther, the sweet Nigerian nurse, gave me a warmed blanket, asked if I’ve had a thyroid biopsy before, and remarked on how calm I was (again, many thanks to the creators of xanax). She distracted me from the many sharp objects being placed on the metal bedside tray by chattering about her one-year-old’s upcoming birthday party with an “elegant princess” theme. She raved about the radiologist who would be sticking that needle into my neck and said he’s a sweetie, just a sweet, sweet, sweetie pie. Good information to have about the person who will be sticking a needle IN MY NECK.
In walks Dr Sweet-Sweet-Sweetie Pie to explain to procedure and to apologize for the unnatural position in which he needed me to prop my head so that he’d have full access to my neck when it came time to stick that needle in there. No prob, Dr Sweetie. Really, it’s all good.
He explained that he’d be giving me a shot of lidocaine, again IN MY NECK, to numb the area for when he would stick the real needle IN MY NECK. He said the lidocaine shot would feel like a bee sting (IN MY NECK). I can’t vouch for the validity of that, as I’ve never been stung by a bee (true story), but I hope like hell that when and if I ever am stung by a bee, it’s not IN MY NECK.
After he explained the part about the needles, he said he’d squirt the gunk he extracts onto 3 slides for a cytologist to look at under a microscope. The cytologist was in the next room, waiting for the gunky slides, so it’s all quite efficient. If on the off-chance — and it is an off-chance — the cytologist doesn’t think there’s enough gunk on the slides, Dr Sweetie Pie will plunge another needle IN MY NECK and extract more gunk. But, Dr Sweetie reiterated, that’s on the off-chance, and the vast majority of times it only takes one plunge of the needle to get enough gunk.
He took a peek with the ultrasound wand to what lies beneath and quickly located the offending nodule. “There it is, for all the world to see” was what he said about that nodule. Once the lidocaine had gone to work, he told me to hold my breath and he stuck the needle IN MY NECK. And left it there. And wiggled it around in circles to extract the cells and debris. Gross.
While I couldn’t feel outright pain, there certainly was pressure, and there was enough feeling to know that the needle was not only still IN MY NECK but also moving around. “Creepy” does not even begin to cover it. I tried going to my happy place, which I’ll be honest, is a HUGE room full of bottles of Veuve Cliquot accessible by me and only me. I tried to summon the sound of the cork popping. I tried to imagine the gentle upward swim of those tiny bubbles in my favorite glass. I tried to console myself with promises of a bottomless glass just as soon as I got home.
Instead, all I could think was that there’s a needle IN MY NECK.
This took me back to the recent days in which my kids were obsessed with Plants vs Zombies, and the theme song that rang out incessantly from the computer: There’s a zombie on your lawn. Instead, in place of zombies and lawns it was needles and my neck. Gross.
The needle-in-the-neck part seemed to go on forever, but in reality lasted just a few minutes. Out comes the needle, and Dr Sweetie Pie fills the slides with my neck gunk then whisks them next door for the cytologist to view. I lay there and thought about zombies and needles and bubbly. After a brief respite, Esther the nurse and the radiology tech whose name I didn’t catch came back into the room and started bustling around. Neither made eye contact with me, which is a dead give-away to bad news. If ever you find yourself in an exam room or a procedure room or an operating room and the medical personnel don’t make eye contact, brace yourself because bad news is a-coming.
Sure enough, in comes Dr Sweetie to say that the cytologist didn’t think there was enough gunk and he needed to go back in and get some more.
Dadgummit, just once I’d love to be the normal one. The one who’s not the exception to the rule. The one who is just like everyone else. The one who skirts complications with nary a backward glance. Apparently that’s not to be; there’s something about complications and me that just go together.
In he went with another needle IN MY NECK to get more gunk. More digging in a circular pattern to extract maximum gunkiness. I didn’t have the nerve to ask if um, there’s ever a need for a third pass. I did ask what happens to the patients who pass out from this procedure. Dr Sweetie laughed and said it’s actually a bit easier, and they’re already lying down so there’s no real risk. Again, I give thanks for xanax.
The second look from the cytologist was satisfactory, so Esther wiped the ultrasound goo off me, applied pressure to the puncture wound IN MY NECK, and applied an industrial band-aid. I was free to go.
I changed out of the gown and into my clothes without even looking to see if my hair was sticking up or to determine how red my neck was from that harrowing experience. I high-tailed it outta there and into the waiting area, where my trusty sherpa Amy and the Hubs waited. Neither seemed too squeamish by my description of the needles — plural — IN MY NECK. Like me, they’ve been through a lot and are a bit hardened to even the most atrocious medical procedure.
We paid for parking, navigated the hospital-to-parking-garage elevator system, and soon were on the road for home with time to spare before school carpool. I spent the rest of the day with an icebag on my neck and a cold beverage in my hand. The worst part is over, but now the waiting begins to see what the gunk reveals. Like a fortune told from tea leaves in the bottom of a china cup, my neck gunk has a story to tell. Fingers crossed that it’s a good story, a happy story, a for-once-just-once-in-my-life-for-the-love-of-all-things-holy an uncomplicated story.
While I wait, I’m sporting a pretty bad-ass-looking mark on my neck that could very well have come from a vampire. Maybe a creepy but kinda hot vampire who would do himself a favor by ditching that milquetoast and hanging out with a chica who can easily withstand a good jab to the neck.