Tomorrow is a big day

I’ve learned the hard way from all this stupid cancer business that every day truly is a gift, as hokey as it sounds, and that life is short, as cliched as that sounds, and that you gotta grab each day and milk it for all it’s worth (I think I just made that one up).

It’s pretty easy to get bogged down in these crazy-busy lives of ours, which by the way, are supposed to be made easier and more relaxing with all the time- and labour-saving devices we have, yet it seems that everyone is still rushed off their feet every single day. Which kinda makes it hard to unwrap the gift that is each day and to savor the little things that form a meaningful amalgamation of life as we know it. I know my to-do list is always a mile long, and some days I have to rewrite chores on the new list, since they didn’t get done on their appointed day.

My to-do list is again long today as I prepare to go out of town for the weekend.

Yes, you read that right: I’m leaving town.

Finally.

After an unfortunate series of non-starters all summer, in which no less than 3 much-anticipated trips erupted in a giant puff of post-mastectomy-infection-tinged smoke, I’m finally going on a trip. First it was the Duke girls’ trip to Tahoe. Gone. Then it was the All Star state baseball championship. Adios. And finally, the annual trek to Boston and Salisbury Beach. See ya. Missing one trip was a hard pill to swallow; missing 3 was just plain cruel. No way around the choking down of that horse pill.

But now, there’s Napa.

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My beacon of hope in a long, barren season of maladies. Could it be that the end to that dreadful season truly is in sight? I’m starting to believe that it is so. There is a part of me, a teensy part, that still fears a blow-up. But just a teensy part. Or a woonty part, as our friends at Salisbury Beach say. The rest of me is full-steam ahead, preparing for one fabulous weekend full of bottled poetry.

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Last time I was in Napa, I was pregnant with Payton, who will be 12 (gulp!) next month. Talk about needing a do-over. And what better reason for a do-over than a BFF’s birthday bash and a celebration of her “40 years of good living,” as the invitation states. I’m in. For celebrating my BFF, for getting a change of scenery, and for relishing this life of mine. 

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This “cancer journey” has turned out to be a bit more complicated than I thought. I’m still a destination girl rather than a journey girl, and I don’t think that’s going to change.

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But starting tomorrow, if only for the celebratory weekend, I’m going to savor every bit of the destination.

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Even if my titanium port-a-cath sets off the security alarms and I ended up getting frisked.

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Even if traffic is heavy and the plane is late.

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Even if I’m stuck sitting next to a mouth-breather on the plane (no, I’m not talking about Trevor).

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Even if the weather turns yucky.

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Even if the ever-present antibiotics have killed off some of my wine-savoring tastebuds.

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I’m going to suck up every ounce of enjoyment from a trip that has been much anticipated, meticulously planned, and a very long time in coming.

 

Our first stop in Napa is Domaine Carneros, maker of one of my favorite champagnes.

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I may just skip all the other wineries and stay right there.

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7 Comments on “Tomorrow is a big day”

  1. Eddie says:

    Drink it in. You most certainly have earned it.If traffic is heavy and the plane is late, pack a roader and let someone else drive. If the port-a-cath leads to a frisking, ask for a hot young TSA agent and make the most of it. If the weather turns yucky stomp in puddles and find a roaring fireplace. And definitely stop to pet any winery dogs you meet.

  2. Jody Hicks says:

    We are so, so glad you are getting to do this! Gorgeous photos – looks even better than Italy – and no language problems! Have a wonderful, wonderful time!

  3. Lisa Wheeler says:

    Good for you ! Well, deserved Lloyd and I were in Napa and went to the champagne estate it is beautiful that was 14 yrs. ago just found out I was pregnant with Allie I need to go back to drink!!! Have a marvelous time and forget about cancer for a couple of days. Love You

  4. David Benbow says:

    Ahhh…Napa! That remains Julie’s & my ONLY vacation without the kiddos. I envy you, but you deserve it more than I do. Just drink a glass for me while you’re there. Cheers!

  5. Barb Fernald says:

    Have a fabulous time!!

  6. Tamara Kay says:

    hoping you have a wonderful timE


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